It’s where you’ll be more curious about where things are going and wondering what his actions mean.
The important thing to keep in mind during this stage is that it’s normal – yes, a man will spend time with you before fully committing.
And just like with grief, these stages do not always happen in this particular order. To wit, brain scan studies show that the brain during orgasm is 95 percent the same as the brain on heroin.
Your brain cannot, biologically, maintain the high of infatuation; you will fry.
That’s because the Convincer is the one who makes sure you spend time together and who pursues the Resistor.
If you are the one doing the convincing, you do not create the space to see if HE will step forward and pursue YOU. Your “resistance” will also inspire him to want to pursue you, rather than resist progress in your relationship.
He sees you as a woman who doesn’t simply have an agenda to be in a committed relationship, but rather as a woman who genuinely wants to be in a relationship with him.