Well, I guess that comes with life But the main question is - instead of the white chick they have been cuddling all year long??
The simple answer to that question is - because they don't like an independent woman.
But frankly, you can date and marry a handsome Nigerian guy any day if you are willing and able to be a good wife.
Here is a Must-read article about Nigeria People - From Nigerian Men Dating Nigerian (Igbo) Man as African American Woman.
If you want him to put a ring on it quicker, learn to cook his ethnic food and see what he will do.