Try to keep what you have to say short and concise. If this date goes well, there will be lots more opportunities to share your stories in the future.
Don’t be scared of pauses and help mix up the conversation by asking your date questions.
There are endless questions that can spin around your head before, during and after a date, which is why we’ve compiled a list of some top dating tips for men, to help make sure your date is an ultimate success. If you’re a little shy, practice beforehand by talking to people you don’t know.
Listening is important, as it shows that you are interested in what she has to say. Keep the conversation fun Try to keep your conversation light-hearted.
On your first date, you don’t want to get into an in-depth conversation about why you don’t enjoy your job, or other issues you’ve been having. Yes you do have to be serious sometimes, but in the early stages of dating, have some fun. Avoid the ‘ex’ conversation Talking about your ex is dangerous territory.
A kiss on your doorstep is enough to reassure us that you are interested but if you invite us in for the night we will start to wonder if this happens to every guy you date.
This is a bit of a subconscious thing with men, and although we think we want to spend the night at your place after a first date, in the cold light of the morning after we will be relieved that it didn’t happen.
Yes, you should never pretend to be someone that you’re not, but a girl might like to see that you take pride in your appearance.